This is important so listen up. The dating
sites can only provide you with a platform, so the rest is up to you. If you don't find success it's because
you didn't follow my advice.....in short:
1. Take the time to fill in your profile completly
and honestly.
2. Log in to the sites you choose at least
once a day (this is more important than most realise)
3. Be proactive. If you see a profile that interests you message him/her and don't
wait to be contacted.
4. Participate in messageboard and chat room discussions as much as possible (unless of course you're
drunk then I don't recommend it). This will certainly get you noticed far more than if you don't.
http://www.nzconnectdirect.com This site has it all and it's free. There is however
a really cheap premium membership level with even more features. Highly recommended.
Warning: Contains adult
content
Go on, join this one. The chat rooms are fun and the messageboards have some good topics.
http://www.kiwidatez.co.nz is free too but you'll
need to pay the really cheap silver or gold membership to use the messageboard forums and instant chat. Highly
recommended
http://www.datefinder.co.nz
is another fully functional for free site. Highly recommended.
Join this one too and help get the messageboards rocking.
I'll be adding a few more of my favourites here shortly.