From a female: ok, i have an alltime
worst dating experience.. it wasnt on ***, but it WAS from an internet site in the USA>>>>>
I was living
in New Jersey, and had been corresponding with this guy in Brooklyn. He was a Russian guy who told me he he was a former Olympic
wrestler who had a terrible accident that prevented him for ever wrestling again, and now managed an Accident and Emergency
clinic. OK sounds good right? I decided to agree to meet him and we arranged that I would come to pick him up in Brooklyn.
He
guided me through the maze of Brooklyn, and into the neighbourhood on the cellphone. When i got into his neighbourhood, i
saw him waliking along the street. He had decided to meet me. OK we went to the car show in Manhatten and it was really cool,
lots of concept cars, ( saw the first Toyota hybrid there!)and it was fun. During that time my friend called me on my call
and she was also Rusian so I told her about this guy i was dating, She got him on the phone (its a chick thing) and had a
conversation with him in Russian about where he was from in Rusua etc..
End of the car show we diceide to go and see a movie in Brooklyn.
About halfway thru the movie his cellphone rings and he has to go outside to take the call. He never returned to the theatre.
So at the end of the movie, i wait in my seat for a few mins, then get antsy and go looking for him. Eventually i find him
waiting for me outside the theatre by the car (?????)He explains to me that there is an emergency 'staff' dinner meeting at
a local resturant that he has to attend right away, and i cant come with him, not even to the same resturant, but could he
drop me off at a neighbouring resturant and meet after the meeting..( ok, now THIS was weird!! It was a Sunday NIGHT!!!!!)
I told him thanks but no thanks. I dropped him off at his home, but he again asked to be dropped off in the neighbourhood
(where i couldnt see the house). When I challanged this citing the need for a pen and paper to get directions out of Brooklyn,
he ran to his house, got he pen and paper, came back to the car and then after i had directions, went back to his home. I
never saw where he lived.
Upon talking with my Russian friend that called me
earlier in the day, she told me that the place where he came from in Russia is notiorious for organised crime, and many of
them escape to USA with falsified sporting creds. *note the thing about the wrestling*
What kind of medical centre conducts
secret emergency meetings on a Sunday night? I ask you?? lol
I was dating a Russian Mobster! YIKES!
From a female:
the date with my man now
prolly the best..we went driving, he had me in stitches all night, so much so my face was sore
(no dirty comments!!), went back to his place and we had a few drinks and went to sleep in each others arms *swoons*...any
other information is confidential ;o)
4 months and counting...
another great one was with someone on here who ended
up being my fb. such a sweetheart and still friends to this day. i invited him around for lunch (yes i cook :oP), and he was
an absolute sweety. he told me that if i have other dates not to invite them to my home first time (danger danger), always
sweet and kind and spoilt me rotten. he's decided he wants a relationship now, so some young lady is going to be SOO lucky
:o)
worst: the guy was cold, took me back to his boat which
was up about 10ft in the air and had no toilet in it, so had to climb out and down the ladder (im TERRIFIED of heights) to
get to the lav. he opened up his laptop and proceeded to surf the web and told me just to watch tv. best thing about that
date was he had a GORGEOUS dog. he might say i was one of his worst because im a big woman, but he knew that beforehand, and
i wouldnt treat someone the way i was treated no matter how i felt about them physically. oh yeah, he loved telling me how
intelligent he was too...
there are other bad ones but just the thought of them
makes my skin crawl..
From a female:
met a guy for coffee (in a cup kind)
he was late, slopped in wearing this grandad type track pants (elastic round the ankles),
moccason type slipper things, I think he had just fallen out of bed, had long finger nails, looked everywhere but at me &
to top it off, spilt his coffee in the saucer..ok that happens..but he pick the saucer up & drank out of it! Not a great
first impression!
From a female:
Got a good & bad one all roll in to one....
I had been talking to a guy in SI for months, he was looking to move up
here etc, talked online, phone etc & eventually he came up here for the weekend. A couple of weeks later I went down there
to his family's place in the sounds...great weekend, I didnt have to do anything, etc. (that was the good part)....Then the
worst....a week later I had a ring from his WIFE who informed me it was her family bach not his, & she was preg with 2nd
child!! Nice!
From a female:
Had a really outstanding.....
one from someone off here. He picked me up in his sports car, took me to town for dinner
and dancing, but we danced so much and I drank a little too much, that I forgot I was hungry, and about 3 am, he whispers
in my ear and asks if I like crayfish, he had a couple in the boot of his car. We went back to my place where he cooked me
crayfish and a couple of whitebait fritters. It was devine. Afterwards, his kisses made me melt, and I am still trying to
figure out if I have ever had an orgasim in my life before that night I met him. I was sure I did...but holy shit...it was
amazing. Anyway, that was one date that I'll remember for a long time.
From a female:
Worst: Talked a bit online and phone, sent pics, asked me over for dinner said he'd cook yehah.Drove for hours in blinding
rain and fog.Got there had a few drinks then said he couldn't be bothered cooking after all and was going to go to bed!!Was
outta there... I mean o.k if there's no chemistry but what happened to friendship and MANNERS? Great burger on the way home
but...
Best: Still waiting
From a female:
ah yea
i had coffee with sombody who was keen until i told him i was a massage therapist professionally. and he asked me
if i should say that in public. wonder what he was thinking, if he was thinking
From a male:
a real shocker for me
went to a event a few weeks back , had arranged to meet a lady there , went to the bar as organised
brought a copuple of drinks , one for her as she asked , waited and waited but no show , sent a couple of txts with no reply
, , went to go home and some prick had broken into my car , what a night , sent the lady a email following morning and she
sent a reply saying she was meeting two guys that night and the other guy drove a nicer car .
From a female:
worst was being called a ball breaker coz i wore a skirt and boots
and he said i was flirting with him and when he started
to get friendly i said i wasnt comfortable he was goin to fast he got shitty and said how come u wore those clothes then i
was like ummmm coz i dress nicely he was scaring me so i got up to leave and he followed me i jumped in the car drove off
quick and yup he came after me ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww best was learning to fish then having smoked fresh fish and a few drinks
by the beach mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
From a female:Worst: Met at a park and after
buying the coffee-to-go he thought that was license to hold my hand like long lost lovers! ewwwwww not cool!
Best: Met
at a bar, danced, had a bet to see who could chat the longest to a random group of the opposite sex - to prove the theory
that men were more often rejected by women (I won of course)...ended the night with coffee and pancakes at 4.30am...and we're
still together a year later
